Category: Kama Sutra

Only Two Sexual Positions?

By Robert Irwin, March 10, 2008 10:27 am

Friday’s post was a little serious, so today’s HAD TO be a little lighter…

As you know, a few weeks ago, we introduced a new resource, Tastefully Illustrated Sexual Positions For Christian Couples.

It includes well over a hundred different positions, so, I know that the premise of the following question (not from one of our readers/visitors) is false.

If the person in the video is you (after you get a shave and ditch the prison issue garb), I suggest that you buy your wife some flowers and work on your persuasion skills!

Illustrated Positions Resource

By Robert Irwin, January 8, 2008 8:42 am

For those of you that are looking for new and different positions, it may be difficult to find an online resource that isn’t pornographic.

Well, you should check out the illustrated positions at www.sexinfo101.com.

They are illustrated with computer generated cartoons, not real people, although even this might be too graphic for some in our audience, so be warned.

Tantra & Kama Sutra Comments And Rants…

By Robert Irwin, March 23, 2007 10:33 am

Today, a few comments on your comments…

Recently, Bubba provided the following comment on our posting of the “Kama Sutra” teddy bear video:

I’m concerned about the “Big Ted and Little Ted

Tantra & Kama Sutra Comments And Rants…

Today, a few comments on your comments…

Recently, Bubba provided the following comment on our posting of the “Kama Sutra” teddy bear video:

I’m concerned about the “Big Ted and Little Ted

Tantric Or Tantra Sex For Christians?

By Robert Irwin, March 22, 2007 1:35 pm

Many readers and visitors ask what we think about “Tantric Sex” or Tantra sex practices and how they relate to our ideas about Christian sex.

Similar to our post about Kama Sutra, Tantric or Tantra Sex are sexual practices that are closely tied to Eastern philosophical and/or religious traditions.

Similar to something like modern (Western) Yoga, it is possible for Christians to benefit from the purely “secular” forms of these ancient practices, while avoiding the underlying (traditional) philosophical or religious components.

Years ago, I took Tae Kwon Do. As you probably know, most martial arts (in the past) have been closely tied to a larger philosophical or religious/cultural context. But, the way that it was taught at my school, you would have never know anything about these things. I gained substantial physical and social benefits from Tae Kwon Do and never once had to deal with the baggage of it’s “history.” Similarly, if you approach Tantric Sex or Tantra Sex practices from a purely “secular” perspective, you may be able to gain similar physical and relational benefits.

Unfortunately, today, most “Tantric sex” or “tantra sex” resources are not so similarly detached from Tantra’s history or philosophies.

Most of the available resources for learning Tantric sex or tantra sex are steeped in “new age” junk. It is side-by-side with various (virtually) occultic content.

Consequently, I don’t recommend that anyone do any significant research into Tantric sex or tantra sex. Particularly because you can achieve the same goals of Tantric sex without dealing with the negative “baggage.”

Most people that are researching Tantric sex or tantra sex are looking to achieve two things:

1) A deeper “spiritual” connection through sex.

2) Longer, more intense sexual experiences.

Both of these goals can best be achieved through proper (and Scriptural) pursuit of Christian sexuality.

Your Christian marriage is the ONLY crucible in which ULTIMATE “spiritual connection” and bonding can take place. God designed sex and your marriage to provide you the ultimate “laboratory” for experiencing true “spiritual sex.” Tantric or Tantra sex practices (outside of a Christian marriage and Scriptural boundaries) can only achieve a pale imitation of what God intended for you!

Achieving longer, more intense sexual experiences is 90% a “technical” matter. If you have developed the “technical” knowledge and physical conditioning that is necessary for longer, more intense sexual experience, you do not need any “new age” mumbo jumbo to “blow the doors off” the sexual pleasure within your marriage.

Readers that have practiced what they found in Sexual Skills For The Christian Husband and Sexual Satisfaction For The Christian Wife have reported that they can experience multiple, simultaneous orgasms with their spouse. And, some have
reported being capable of extending their lovemaking for as long as they desire.

Kama Sutra For Christians?

By Robert Irwin, March 20, 2007 9:21 am

After many Christians have read Sexual Skills For The Christian Husband and Sexual Satisfaction For The Christian Wife, they become so excited about their sexual possibilities that they begin their own “journey of sexual
exploration.”

Which means that I get quite a few questions regarding the “Kama Sutra.”

Christians want to know our opinion regarding whether the Kama Sutra is a valid resource for Christian couples.

What most people refer to as the “Kama Sutra” is the Kamasutram. It is one of the oldest Indian texts and is considered to be the primary Sanskrit work of literature that deals with love and sexuality.

The Kama Sutra is attributed to a celibate scholar named Vatsyayana and is estimated to have been written sometime in the 4th century AD.

There are actually 36 chapters of “the Kama Sutra,” although most Western references to this tome are referring to chapter 10, the chapter that lists various sex positions.

The Kama Sutra is, at base, a Hindu religious text. Consequently, the vast majority of this document would most likely not be of interest to Christians. Most Western utilization of the Kama Sutra has been limited to the description and illustration of various sex positions (64 to be exact) that you will find in the Kama Sutra.

As a Christian, you will most likely find the remaining portions of the Kama Sutra to be either irrelevant or, in some cases, offensive to your sensibilities.

Which is fine; most of us are not seeking information from the Kama Sutra on “virtuous living” or “The Conduct of the Well-bred Townsman.”

My recommendation, relative to the Kama Sutra, is that you find an illustrated list of the 64 sex positions. Such a guide can be a great “idea generator” for finding some variety in your sex life.

One such resource can be found at Kama Sutra Sex Positions. This is a free photo illustration of the 64 Kama Sutra positions utilizing wooden artist’s models. It is not pornographic in any way and fairly helpful in conveying the general idea of most of the positions.

If you want a chuckle, you can also check out the following “Teddy Bear Kama Sutra” video…

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