In this issue of the Christian Marriage
Secrets Newsletter…

- A Note From The Editors, Robert & Susan Irwin
- Christian Marriage Quote
- Sexual Relationship Tip
- Christian Marriage Secrets Article
- Recommended Resource
- Who are Robert & Susan Irwin?
- Removal Instructions
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The Christian Marriage Secrets Newsletter:

By Relationship Coaches & Christian Authors:

Robert & Susan Irwin

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http://christiansexfacts.com/blog//

July 24th, 2007

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This Week’s Christian Marriage Recommended
Resource:

“The Ejaculation Master”

Discover a simple step by step method – you can practice in
the privacy of your own home – that will permanently
eliminate your premature ejaculation and make you a
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Robert & Susan’s News and Notes:

Warning for husbands!

Valentine’s Day is only two weeks away!

You have been warned…

-Susan

Household appliances are not acceptable Valentine’s Day
Gifts.

No matter what she says…she does want a Valentine’s day
gift.

-Robert

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This Week’s Christian Marriage Secrets Quote:

“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while
loving someone deeply gives you courage.”

~Lao Tzu~

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This Week’s Sexual Relationship Tip:

“Underwear? Under where?”

Want a cheap and highly predictable way to up the
excitement on a “normal” night out?

Want to be POSITIVE that your husband treats you with extra
attention?

Leave your underwear at home!

And, more importantly, once you are out…let your husband
know that you aren’t wearing any underwear.

Be prepared for fun.

~Susan

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This week’s Christian marriage article:

“Christian Marriage Blunders – How To Wreak Havoc In Your
Relationship In The New Year”

by Terre Grable

A brand new year is here, and with it comes a lot of New
Year resolutions. As Christians, there is no greater place
to start than within your own marriage. How is your
relationship with your spouse? Here are 7 ways to totally
wreak havoc in your Christian marriage:

1. Make mountains out of mole hills

Marriages are filled with a lot of joys, sorrows, and
irritations along the way. Sometimes it can be difficult to
distinguish between a mountain and a molehill. Mountains
are those things that are worth taking a stand, while
molehills are more like minor irritations. Mountains are
very large and immovable. Molehills are small irritating
piles of dirt that are easily smoothed over. If you are
having difficulty distinguishing between and mountain and a
molehill, ask yourself if this issue is worth taking time
out of your day to discuss with your spouse.

2. Yell at one another

The quickest way to destroy communication in your Christian
marriage is to yell at one another. Proverbs 18:21 states,
“Life and death are in the power of the tongue, and those
who love it will eat its fruit.” Such power the tongue has!
Are you using yours for life or death in your relationship
with your spouse?

3. Build emotional walls

Emotional walls steal the intimacy in a marriage. And
Christian marriages are not free from them. In fact, every
marriage has them from time to time because we are
imperfect humans. Yet, the difference between a healthy
relationship and unhealthy one is what you do with the
emotional walls. Do you choose to keep your emotional
walls, thereby building them higher? Or do you allow
communication and forgiveness to help tear them down?

4. Ignore you problems

Avoidance and denial are two crucial ingredients to
destroying any Christian marriage. They go together with
the adage “If we don’t face it, then it doesn’t exist” or
“Don’t rock the boat.” Conflict avoidance will take your
marriage down the pathway to such great destinations of
Misunderstanding, Distrust, and Resentment. Where as facing
your problems can take you to such resorts as Forgiveness,
Intimacy and Happiness.

5. Hold on to resentment

Resentment paralyzes any martial relationship. It serves as
a catalyst for distance, lack of communication, and
bitterness between spouses. If you want a relationship
filled with bitterness, plant the seed of resentment and
nurture it with an unforgiving spirit.

6. Store up ammunition for your next argument

Long before popular psychology came into existence, the
Apostle Paul penned an award winner definition for
Christian love. It is found in I Corinthians 13:5, “…it
does not keep a record of wrongs;…” Today some may call
this “letting go” or “forgiveness.” Regardless of what it
is called, as Christians we are encouraged to not keep a
running tally list of the offenses our spouses have
committed against us.

7. Never ask for forgiveness

As humans, it feels so much better to point out others’
faults rather than admit our own. Yet, marriage is about
having the maturity to first ask for forgiveness for how we
have hurt our spouse, rather than demanding their asking us
for forgiveness.

Article Source: http://www.tips.com.my

About the Author:
Do you need to show more forgiveness in your Christian
marriage in the New Year? Visit
http://www.choosingforgiveness.net where you will find more
information on the power of forgiveness in your Christian
marriage.

Terre Grable is a Christian counselor in Nashville,
Tennessee

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This Week’s Christian Marriage Recommended
Resource:

“The Ejaculation Master”

Discover a simple step by step method – you can practice in
the privacy of your own home – that will permanently
eliminate your premature ejaculation and make you a
marathon man in bed… completely guaranteed!

http://csf001.epremature.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=csfblg

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Who are Robert & Susan Irwin?

-Robert and Susan Irwin are Nationally-recognized
authors and speakers.

-They have been asked to appear as Sexual Experts
on radio (The Danny Fontana Show [Inspiration
Network]), television (The Discovery Channel) and
has been published in many magazine (Men’s
Health) and newspaper (The Pittsburgh Post
Gazette) articles.

-They are the proud parents of four amazing
children.

-He is the founder and Executive Director of the
Sexual Performance Institute.
-His E-Book, Sexual Skills For The Christian
Husband™ has been one of the world’s
best-selling E-Books for over nine years.
-Thousands of men and women, across the globe,
have benefited from their counseling, seminars
and E-Books.

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Christian Sex Blog:

http://christiansexfacts.com/blog/

Christian Marriage Resource Center:

http://christiansexfacts.com/marriageresources/

Christian Marriage Forum:

http://christiansexfacts.com/blog//